This is the darkest time of every year – a time we sit together in the darkness awaiting the coming of the light. This year, darkness has reached out and touched every one of our hearts. The tragedy of Sandy Hook has caused many of us to wonder WILL THE LIGHT COME AGAIN. So, I have written a new story – for you – and for myself to remind us of possibility and of our own power to make a difference
In the process of recovering from kidney cancer, one of my patients underwent a transformation from a hard driving CEO to a volunteer and supporter of many good causes. He told me of the experience, which had changed his way of moving through the world. As a child of atheistic and intellectual parents, he had no religious upbringing or spiritual inclination and had immersed himself in the world of competition and business with much success. While formerly his business had been the focus of his life; now his cancer and its treatment required him to be away from the multi-tasking demands and pressures of his work and instead to spend several months in the quiet of his living room.
At first this had been frightening and deeply disorienting but then as the fatigue of his chemotherapy took hold, he had simply surrendered to this silence and spent hours on his couch dozing in the company of his cat. One afternoon as he lay drifting in and out of sleep he found himself looking at a bookshelf on the opposite wall and it seemed to him that one of the books stood out from the others in an odd way. Getting up for a closer look he saw that it was the very same Bible that the clergy who had performed his marriage years ago had given to him and his wife. Taking it back to the couch he opened it for the first time and started to read the story of the beginning of the world. He was surprised to feel a deep response to the simple words, how real and familiar and terrifying the formlessness and darkness felt to him and how it seemed to be somehow connected to the terrible recent events in his life. And then he encountered the statement with which the world begins: “ LET THERE BE LIGHT.” He lay there for a time feeling the great power in these four words wash over him.
As he thought about this, the words suddenly shifted their meaning and he realized that they were addressed to him personally; that he personally was able to choose to act in ways that increased the light in the world. He had never considered this possibility before but over the next days and weeks it became a more and more compelling thought, until he recognized it as a deep yearning in himself to live in a certain way. That perhaps the purpose of life was not to become wealthy or succeed in business or to leave a financial inheritance to his children as he had thought. Perhaps his life had been given back to him so he might have the chance to fulfill the real purpose of life…which is to bring more light into the world. Perhaps this was the inheritance he could leave to his children.
You are a blessing just as you are. I wish you a year of kindness and Peace.